Mr Unavailable and The Fallback Girl Ebook Available To Buy

 

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For a dedicated guide to emotional unavailability check out my ebook Mr Unavailable and The Fallback Girl

Just over two and a half years ago I stumbled across the realisation that not only did I love Mr Unavailable's (emotionally unavailable men) but that I was a commitment-phobe that was sabotaging all of my relationships, unbeknowst to me. I started sharing my insights here and at Baggage Reclaim , and I am still astounded by the number of women that are just like me.

Mr Unavailable and The Fallback Girl Part One is finally ready to buy. It's my guide to emotionally unavailable men and the women that love them. I am empowering women to get smart about their faux relationships with these men and gain real positive change so that they can find personal happiness, which in turn, will lead to better relationship opportunities. This is not about trying to change him (most of us have realised that it's nigh on impossible) and instead find out how and why Mr Unavailable behaves as he does so that you know how to read the signs and get the hell out. 

This is the start of embarking on path of building your self esteem so that you can get happy and open yourself up to the prospect of a healthy relationship. Find out the types of situations that you can be drawn into by these men, get a list of his many signs of emotional unavailability, learn about how he manages down your expectations with The Status Quo through blowing hot and cold and how these men pull the whole 'This one time in bandcamp' thing where they trot out the same lame excuses so that  we feel sympathetic to their 'plight' and don't ask for too much. Discover how Mr Unavailable relegates you to 'accidental' booty calls or friends with benefits and why the relationship with this man is doomed. This is just the beginning...
It is £5 which is roughly $9.83 although it will tell you when you go through to checkout!

Comments

[Pretreatment]

Having another hard day. I am under so much stress in my life right now and this man's treatment of me kind of sent me over the edge. my lifestyle is kind of isolated (life in the country) and I have teenagers. So I clambered for the life preserver this guy threw my way. It was so wonderful at first and he really set me up with romantic letters and dinner and meeting his friends and sex

[Jeri Watermolen]

I am a 54 yr old woman involved with a 58 yr old man. Prior to us getting involved in an intimate relationship 6 months ago, I was friends with him for 13 yrs. He has pursued me for the last 5 yrs dropping me lines that you know older men like younger women, and do you think its normal to not be in love with someone. With that being said, I decided to make the switch from friend to friend with benefits, the later not what I wanted, but what I have come to realize. This man is making me feel crazy. He offers me 3 yrs of his time once a week and is constantly involved in his own things. I ask him what kind of relationship we have and he indirectly tells me he cares dearly for me. When we are together he talks about how attractive stangers are and talks a lot about other women. I get so bottled up with anxiety and hold it in but when i discuss this with him he tells me that is how he is and has been for 30+ yrs. I never feel satified with him. After I have spent the 3 hrs once a week with him, I feel so frustrated, I feel unimportant. I have never been in a relationship that is such a struggle. He is very selfish. Please confirm that I have no future with him.

[Angie]

THANK GOODNESS FOR THIS! All this time Ive been blaming myself and Ive been in complete and utter shock as to what happened and why. He pursued me for 7 yrs, non stop, told me I was his dream woman, I was everything he ever wanted. If I pushed away he came harder. And boom I fell for it. We moved in together within a month he proposed in 5 mos. Then the dirt came. He was in constant contact w/ the ex wife and many other women. He became cold, distant, mean, abusive, unavailable, confusing, disrespectful. Everything wrong! Blamed it on depression and stress. Told me I was perfect but he just couldn't marry me until he got his life together and wanted me to wait (which is a lie because he is financially stable) Dumped me and jumped to a new relationship in 2 wks w/ a woman who was recently divorced and is an emotional wreck. She contacted me because she thought he was distant because he was back chasing me. He is manipulative and I am happy to know that I did nothing wrong except stay on a roller coaster of confusion for 2 1/2 years. I have a wonderful job, Im beautiful, intelligent, I have a degree and I am only 25 yrs old. Im sure I will do just fine without him. it does hurt sometimes though. He still says I am his true love, lol lol what a joke!