Even though this blog still gets a lot of visitors, you may have noticed that I haven't updated for a while as I have been expanding Baggage Reclaim.
I have taken the decision to leave this blog up as there are a lot of comments but I will be finding a way to merge it into the main blog Baggage Reclaim. It is now update every weekday and there have been LOTs of posts about Mr Unavailable's as well as a Thirty Days of Drama Reduction series.
You can also find out more information about the ebook Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl.
I would love to download the next two books. They are really helping me. I cannot access...please send link to my email. Thank you for all this information.
Posted by: Heidi Hevell | 20/10/2008 at 05:33 PM
What happened?
Posted by: frinds dating | 26/12/2009 at 01:25 PM
Having another hard day. I am under so much stress in my life right now and this man's treatment of me kind of sent me over the edge. my lifestyle is kind of isolated (life in the country) and I have teenagers. So I clambered for the life preserver this guy threw my way. It was so wonderful at first and he really set me up with romantic letters and dinner and meeting his friends and sex, but I always felt nervous about the whole thing until he really stepped up his game to relieve my fears and then... wham! major blow off and disappearing act. Cold blooded. I started to become dependent on a friend. That is the hardest part. I just worry about myself a bit because I need to be functioning at a higher level to take care of business.
Posted by: janeva | 17/02/2011 at 10:39 PM
I think that if you are having more ups than downs with your man, then the relationship is worth saving, if you are having more lows than highs, then bag it. You will be much better on your own. Self help books can only help you the individual it will not help the relationship, unless however, it is you the reader that is at fault in which case, self help is best option and a great way to save a relationship.
Posted by: Berlin dating | 01/08/2011 at 10:38 AM
Every single relationship is different, sometimes people argue constantly but this is just how the couple are. It is important to remember that you must never base your relationship on somebody else's you will decide if you want your relationship to continue or not and it should not be down to other peoples opinions, just because one couple throw the towel in on their relationship, does not mean that you have to throw the towel in on yours.
Posted by: Oliver | 06/08/2011 at 03:19 PM
I write a lot about relationships and give advice, I am only able to do this because of the experiences I have had during my life. I think that people are quick to judge other peoples life and relationships but every one is different, what goes for one will not apply to another. When I was going through my rough patch, everyone told me to move on and forget my husband, I would have a better life with someone else, at the time, this was definitely true, but he has changed to a point that he is a brilliant husband and dad, and if I had thrown in the towel I would never have seen that. So it can work out!
Posted by: Jo | 09/08/2011 at 10:47 AM