Hello peeps! Hope you all enjoyed your Easter weekend!
I have put together the best of my posts on the No Contact Rule so that you have them all together in one handy little manual and you can download it for free right now!
"NML's Guide to....the No Contact Rule" is your no holds barred guide to telling that guy to take a run and jump without actually having to utter the words!
Learn how to break up with men that don’t want to break and let you go so that you can live a better life and be a person with higher self-esteem. This is the quick guide to avoiding being a Fallback Girl, that woman that Mr Unavailable relies or ‘falls back’ on to massage his ego and pander to his needs whilst contributing little or nothing.
By the time you finish this ebook you will understand how to cut contact and why this technique is needed. But remember, you need to accept that it is going to hurt for a while but it will pass. Stop fearing the pain!
Go and download now!
I hope you enjoy!
Take care
NML
Traci asks "I feel like I fell for an emotionally unavailable guy mostly because I was dealing with a tragedy and was more vulnerable than usual. I attached myself to someone I had only begun dating who ended up being an emotional unavailable guy (I got one good cry on the shoulder experience and then very little after that).
Does this play a role in my willingness to accept the crumbs he gave (mostly in the form of the occasional text message, visit and sex session)?
Was my EUM experience prompted out of desperation for a false sense of security and comfort during a very isolated, lonely time? I always knew that his behavior and his circumstances made him unacceptable for boyfriend material but yet I held onto him just because I don't know- he was there? Maybe its an excuse, but because I've ended things with him and had never been in an emotionally unavailable man situation before I'm more apt to think it was just an exceptional case and not a routine or indication of something deeper in terms of my outlook on men, love and relationships. I am being extra aware thorough and assessing my own traits and patterns now. I know that I'm not ready to look for love again and I need to re-gain my sense of self that I was before the EUM and before this tragic situation. Until then, I know it’s not fair to place unrealistic expectations on anyone I would meet in the near future. FYI: The tragedy was not of a romantic nature; I was dealing with a turbulent family situation that left me in shambles."
